Author's Note:
I realized after writing this that it may be cryptic for some. For
those struggling with one of the themes, please consider this: to neglect,
hate, or ridicule someone or something for weakness or simplicity is an error on your part. These are all strong words, to be sure, but I've
heard far too many arguments along the lines of "he's a sinner how could
you love him?" Even of the blessed St. Peter "he was a fool and serves
as an example for us." Others may say "I hate myself because I keep messing up [in sin, etc.]." Others still have said that "the Church is just
human authority filled with human weakness, I follow God alone."
Part of this is about patience and perseverance coupled with understanding and a willingness to change.
I ask, humbly, you reflect on those sentiments with this. This is hardly adequate for full but in the interest of your own attention and retention I cut this down significantly.
I ask, humbly, you reflect on those sentiments with this. This is hardly adequate for full but in the interest of your own attention and retention I cut this down significantly.
What are you talking about?? (Comment below if you feel that way) |
I. Introduction
Those who do not share in the
weaknesses of the body have no share in the body itself. For what
body in this life is free from corruption and limitedness? Even the
great Body of Christ is subject to weakness precisely because he
subjected Himself to our weakness since “he took the form of a
slave” (Phil 2:7) and “was of human estate.” Even after the
Resurrection His resplendent and transformed body still bore the
wounds of his glorious crucifixion (cf. Jn 20:20). It should be noted
even more that Jesus identifies Himself with the weak and broken for
“what you have done for the least of these you have done for me”
(Mt:25:40). Likewise Jesus identified Himself with those who were
persecuted, ridiculed, and killed in His name. This is why He said
“Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” (cf. Acts 9:4,
5).
Paul said that “Christ is the head of
the body the church.” (Col 1:18). We have seen, albeit briefly,
that Christ shared in our humanity fully and willfully. We saw,
through His resurrection, that He transformed our weaknesses while
still keeping the physical marks of that weakness. They were not cast
aside or hidden but present in plain sight. Jesus told Thomas “put
your finger in my hands and in my side” (cf. Jn 20:27ff). The
history of Christianity is a constant call to “place our fingers on
the wounds of His body.” Thomas doubted the Resurrection, perhaps,
because after witnessing the horror and shame of the cross (and
living in his own shame) he asked ‘how might anything good come
from this?’ Christ showed him precisely the good that came from it,
namely His own person.
II. Sharing in Weakness
This is what I call each of you to do
today: If you are to truly share in the Body of Christ do you share
in its weaknesses? The weaknesses I refer to are failures in charity,
excessive opulence, elements of the Inquisition and Crusades, sex
abuses, and every weakness that we see in our own person. Blaming the
past, however horrible—and indeed some things are horrible—is to
separate fallen and weak humanity from the life of faith. Faith is
not perfection but, in a manner of speaking, seeking perfection.
Weakness is either self-generated or encountered, shall we shy away
from either?
I rarely see this type of image, of Jesus as a fragile child being cared for. Jesus Christ, our savior and Lord, became as a little child out of love for us. |
Christ met our broken humanity. He
calls us through faith and baptism to share in His mission of
transforming all of humanity. If we deny the humanity of the
Body we separate ourselves from that Body. The Church is the Body of
Christ beset by human weakness but all the same transformed by Christ
and upheld by the Spirit.
When we recognize weaknesses and
failures there is a twofold response: the first is active insofar as
we seek to rid ourselves of that weakness (whatever it may be). The
second, equally important, is to realize that we are not separate
from our weaknesses. The weaknesses that we carry inform our actions
for the future, even in healing. If we do not address our weakness
actively we won’t change effectively. If we try to disassociate
ourselves from our weaknesses we become insensitive to the weaknesses
of others and we forget who we are.
III. Examples of Weakness
Transformed
St. Peter is our first
example and our guide. He was filled with faith and he was blessed
personally by Christ (cf. Mt 16:16-20). But he had his faults too. He
was rash and at times overzealous. This zeal, coupled with his
predispositions about what the Messiah was supposed to be, led him to
deny Christ three times while He was being humiliated. He abandoned
his friend and the one whom he loved. “He wept bitterly” (cf. Mt
27:75). After the resurrection Christ called out to him and Peter
responded. Christ confronted Peter’s sin, fear, and weakness not by
shaming him but by asking him, “Peter, do you love me?” Jesus
asked him this three times for every time Peter denied him. Peter
recanted three times saying “You know that I love you” (Jn
21:17). Peter is a man whose strengths and weaknesses are on full
display. Just as God had chosen Moses, Abraham, and David before He
chose this time to call a simple fisherman to greatness. These
patriarchs and this king themselves sinned, doubted, and failed.
Through it all they carried out what God had asked of them. Only
Peter, however, was given “the keys of the kingdom of heaven” (Mt
16:19).
Despite his brashness and weakness Christ still pulled him from the water. Despite his denial Jesus came to him and Peter grew in understanding, wisdom, and love because of Christ's example. |
Our chief example, and one that
has given me pause for years, is the Eucharist. I believe in Christ
and I believe in Christ risen. I also believe that at the Last Supper
he gave us a model to follow: he took the bread, broke it and said,
'take this all of you and eat this. This is my body which has been
given up for you.' He also said of the wine 'this is my blood.' This
I believe with my whole heart. This sentiment is in accord with all
that has been said above. Truly, to our senses it appears as mere
bread and mere wine. Then I recall with wonder that “he emptied
himself … coming in human likeness and found in human appearance”
(Phil 2:7). Likewise that “he had to become like his brothers in
every way” (Heb 2:17).
Indeed, the Eucharist is regarded as
the Son of Man, present sacramentally in ordinary bread and wine
which has been transformed by the prayer that Christ entrusted to His
Apostles and their successors. The Eucharist is both a glorification
of the Cross and a sacrifice that dips into the eternal moment of
Christ's one sacrifice and shares fully in it. It is something that
stands outside of time. Something so grand, God Himself! in ordinary,
daily food. Christians have praised the extraordinary in the ordinary
as well as paradox from the beginning insofar as “Jews look for
signs and Greeks look for wisdom but we proclaim Christ crucified”
(1 Cor 1:22-23).
This is what we exalt. Do you? |
Furthermore Jesus Christ Himself is
“the living bread that came down from heaven that one may eat it
and not die. I AM the living bread that came down from heaven;
whoever eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will
give is my flesh for the life of the world” (Jn 6:50-51). I could
occupy an encyclopedia set with the richness of these verses. The
word “eat” (phagein) has no spiritual connotation. It
literally means to chew and physically eat. By eating this living
bread we shall not die. Then Christ follows by saying “ego eimi”
which means “I am.” But this is no mere “I am” but rather a
direct reference to God speaking about Himself in the Old Testament.
It is a proclamation of authority and power—this is something we
should listen to. He said “I AM the living bread come down from
heaven.” He then says “Whoever eats/chews this bread will
live forever.” He further says
“the bread which I give is my flesh,” Literally my earthly flesh.
The simple bread which He gives is
his flesh. For the time being let this entirely inadequate account
suffice. No “ego eimi”
statement in Scripture is a metaphor or an opinion. It is Jesus
speaking in the authority of the Father on an intrinsic reality.
IV. Share in
Weakness, Share in Glory
What is my purpose
in saying all of this? Proceeding from the Eucharist and the example
of the Apostles (chief among them Peter) Christ gave us two simple
and lowly things and transformed them. He transformed bread and wine
into His flesh and blood. He transformed simple fishermen into
philosophers, teachers, and bearers of His message. Though they were
of human estate they were transformed and “filled with the Holy
Spirit” (Acts 2:4).
The Church is the
Body of Christ—it is subject to weakness. The Eucharist is bread
and wine made the Body and Blood of Christ—it is common and
ordinary yet mysterious and sublime. The Apostles were chosen by
Christ Himself to bear unique witness to His teaching and
mission—they were “also human beings” (Acts 10:26). Jesus
Christ identifies with the poor, persecuted, and the oppressed in an
intimate way—they are lowly and 'worthless' in the eyes of the
world. Finally, Jesus Christ Himself, was born of a virgin in
poverty. He was a helpless child and a man subjected to ridicule and
cruel torture. A man who took on our every weakness.
By eating His flesh
and blood, and through baptism, we join ourselves more fully to Him
so that we may share in His suffering. In our own flesh we “fill up
what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ on behalf of His body,
which is the Church” (Col 1:24). When the Church, or even her
members, do evil the whole suffers. By our personal and communal
work, love, and suffering we correct the wounds of that Body and also
“share in our master's joy” (cf. Mt 25:14-23).
Follow their hands and their eyes. They are looking at Christ, yes. They are looking at the Eucharist. |
Join
yourself, then, more fully to Him and His Church, for those who do
not share in the weaknesses of the Body will separate themselves from
the Body. In rejecting weakness and wickedness as unlovable they move
away from the God “who so loved the world
that He gave His only Son” (Jn 3:16a).
Nicely written and expressed! I loved especially the references to Peter and others mentioned in Scripture who were transformed from being weak to full of the Holy Spirit.
ReplyDeleteWhile reading, I was thinking of possible target audiences of this post in general and was wondering why you think some Catholics (I understand people of other or no faiths can fall into this too but I'm primarily interested in this population) are so quick to demean the weak. I'm picturing the ones who give generously at offerings yet scowl at those who show signs of having chosen or been given a different path (e.g. pregnant teen, recovering addict, homeless man). This reaction is usually unintentional: they don't know they're judging so critically. Further, how can one go about addressing that "holier than thou" mentality?
Thank you very much. You also bring up a great topic of discussion which I hope I address adequately:
DeleteIt's hard to label why Catholics, as a 'population,' might demean the weak. I guess it's hard to see in what manner you see this happening or why you feel it's excessively widespread. You do say that for some (even many) that it seems unintentional, so let's see what might be an unintentional cause.
-Some Catholics, perhaps, work very hard on moral perfection. They seriously want to better themselves, overcome weaknesses, etc. That habituation might lead them to dislike/detest/avoid those whom they perceive as not being of the same mindset.
-Some Catholics may feel that they are in possession of moral truth or superiority simply by the name Catholic. It almost has a flavor of Donatism [http://carm.org/donatism], itself a half-unintentional heresy if you ask me. Those who live a Catholic life by their standards might begin to believe that others are 'defaming the name of Catholic.'
-It may be the case that those who are a single, teen mother, a recovering addict, etc. are perceived as those who would not listen to 'correction.' This of course raises the question for me why these people think the others are even at mass if they weren't looking for Christ. 'Correction' is a hard topic, however, because you say it yourself: sometimes a bad situation is brought about by choice and other times circumstances. That sensitivity is necessary from the start.
I suppose I could go on but I don't want to flood the topic.
As for the last question, addressing a holier-than-thou mentality. I think one of the hardest absurdities of the phrase is that some will accuse others of being "holier than thou" while themselves making up reasons to criticize others.
The number one remedy is humility, but easier said than done. The measure that we are unwilling to be corrected by the well-meaning and ill-meaning alike is the measure of our humility or perceived 'holiness.'
The holier than thou mentality is hard to address because this sentiment is often associated with my first example (moral rigor). Taking an accusing tone with anyone will work very poorly. Sometimes the best first step is probing their own feelings as to why their upset.
In my honest opinion, whenever I struggle with how to respond to others or accept this or that critique I often look to the book of Proverbs and Wisdom in Scripture. That often sets me straight!
Thanks again for your comment. If I was unclear about anything please let me know!
Thank you for your comprehensive reply! I understand that the question I posed was sort of difficult to answer: from reading your response, it's very clear how this topic varies from person to person and it's impossible to know exactly where one stands in both his own weakness and his perception of others'. I can also see a lot of psychology falling into this... how one's perceived weaknesses shown in another can make that person unlikable, since he stands as a reminder of what still needs to be accomplished.
DeletePerhaps, since I am still only being exposed to Catholicism and only recently regularly attend mass, that I am very sensitive to how others at church look at me. I confess that I likely take certain glances and phrases too personally and am quick to become defensive (though, respectfully, I don't speak this aloud during conversation). As an "outsider," it can be an isolating feeling trying to become a part of a community, and it's both the Church and my responsibility to make this transition easier and more welcoming.
How do you see that we as humans can best reconcile the struggle between putting on a good face (being successful person in all areas: family, work, intelligence, culture, religion, etc.) and admitting our limitations? When is the appropriate time to expose this side to other Catholics, because isn't it only then that you can truly respect and accept where one stands in utilizing our weaknesses to become closer to God?
I'll definitely try your strategy in using Proverbs and Wisdom when encountering similar situations. Thanks again for taking the time to not only write your blog but to respond to my questions!! I really value your work and opinions.
It's my pleasure, really.
DeleteWhat I think is important to take away from my response above (and your reading of it too) is that we all need to stick in our minds our brothers and sisters. We are all a collection of joys, anxieties, expectations, etc. and all of us are interacting with one another. Indeed, the Church is a hospital for souls and a home for all people.
It's a matter, sometimes, of being sensitive that we are a public person and we have a public faith that isn't (or shouldn't be) radically distinct from our private person. I've come to learn--rightly I think--that we are all ambassadors for Christ in all our actions. Some people do this poorly because, perhaps, they simply do not realize the weight of their actions. I could go into it more but I don't want to write an essay and muddy things beyond that.
I don't know how much weight to put into psychology, at least at this point. It's easy to speculate that this or that reason is why someone doesn't like us or is uneasy around us. Sometimes it's complex and other times simple. In my mind, it's best not to occupy too much time on these thoughts. It may very well be a component but then we may also start to see things in other people that aren't there and then we become a victim of what we see in other people.
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I think it's great you're looking into Catholicism. What has interested you about it? -if you don't mind speaking on it.
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It's also tough, I imagine, coming in from the outside and perhaps being out of sync with everything. It's all a process, however, and we learn in baby steps at times. Have you ever spoken to the pastor (or another priest) there and introduced yourself? Sometimes it's hard to welcome someone who they don't know needs to be welcomed. This is, as you say, also an effort that the Church needs to do a bit more.
I hope, however, that your feelings of isolation pass and the community welcomes you. I'm not sure, but perhaps introducing yourself to some of the groups at the parish may be a good start. In that sense maybe the pastor would be a good help in directing you in that manner.
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The only way I can think of reconciling 'putting on a good face' and 'admitting our limitations' is how we deal with those limitations. Are we patient when attacked, gentle when others fall or screw up, and are we honest (yet gentle) when we talk to others about it?
We will falter, that much is true. I think if we look at our successes as the mark of our virtue then we begin to work only for good results. This means that we value the trophy over the race so to speak.
But to answer your question more specifically, that is "when is it appropriate to expose this other side?"
I think in a more intimate and trusting situation. I think it would be hard to just come up to someone and tell them your weaknesses because they don't know you quite well. I think building up a relationship naturally brings about the good and the bad.
It's not just about exposing weaknesses, but it's also about looking at your talents, good traits, and strengths and magnifying them in God as well.
Our weaknesses and strengths both draw us closer to God. Both can lead us to gratitude in that our weaknesses teach us humility and our strengths can be used to uplift others who struggle.
One example would be someone who is very good at reading Scripture and understanding it helps teach another. But this same person struggles with humility. The person who learns from him is very humble and by way of his example teaches humility to the other. Our weaknesses make room, in a sense, for each others strengths to lift us up.
I hope this helps a bit more. Please, if you have more questions or if I was vague, let me know. I personally find these books helpful but perhaps in your own way you will find a book (such as Psalms, the prophets, the Gospels, etc.) that speak to you in a better way.
Thank you so much again!
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